Getting away, just the two of you, from time to time, is healthy for your marriage. It’s a good idea for parents to take vacations without their kids for a couple of days.
Some fears come with leaving your kids behind for any period of time. You might even feel guilty about leaving them at home while you’re on holiday, but getting away is essential so you can recharge.
Although it’s normal to feel anxious about leaving your kids behind, it’s also important to remember that they’re at home and safe.
Having a positive attitude about traveling can help ease anxiety.
During a trip, you can spend time doing things that we would never be able to accomplish with kids in tow. Some of these include walking through museums in foreign cities and leisurely dinners.
One of the essential factors to consider when it comes to adult-only travel is ensuring that your kids are with responsible adults whom you trust.
Before you go
It’s important to talk to your kids about the plans for the trip. If they’re likely to be excited about staying with their grandparents or caregiver, tell them a few days in advance. But, if you suspect it will upset them or make them anxious, you can wait until the day of the trip to tell them. According to a psychologist, there’s no point in telling them too early as they might spend more time worrying or upset.
Even if your kids are a little upset, it’s great for them to see that their parents want to spend time together.
A fun thing to try is asking your child to lend you one of their favorite toys. While you’re away, take photos with the toy in different cities and during fun adventures. This will make your child feel a part of the vacation. It’s a great way to include them while still getting your adult time together. Plus it will be fun for you too.
Ultimately, it’s healthy for you to get away, and the kids need to know you can’t be with them every single day. It’s good for everyone in the house to learn and grow.